One of our client once ordered the program of Personal Advisor. We suggested him that he paid attention to several girls who seemed to be good candidates for serious relationships with him. The man sent us the criteria of search for the partner, described the type of women he liked and took psychological test. The advisor looked for the girls who were compatible with this client and would meet all his criteria.
However, the man preferred to look through the gallery on his own as well, as long as it was his intuition and taste he trusted more. He liked one of the girls a lot, although the truth was that he better liked her photo made by a professional photographer. She was the only girl he wanted to meet. In a few months he came to Russia and insisted on having a meeting with her the day he arrived.
As soon as he entered the office I understood that their relationships are hopeless. He was so much full with energy that it seemed to flood the office. The girl was rather attractive, but she obviously was much less energetic.
They talked a bit and decided to walk in the street. Fifteen minutes later he returned back to the office alone and asked to call the taxi. He said that she understood nothing he told her and she even would not have tried to. The problem was that he just did not have anything to talk about despite her good knowledge of English. But before this personal meeting they had communicated for some time, exchanged some letters and succeeded to find things in common about each other.
I looked at their detailed compatibility report resulted from the psychological test they had taken. Their intellectual rates and main life values were the same. That was the reason they were able find the common language during written communication. But their rates in the scale “Energy-Calmness” given in the main Chemistry Compatibility report differed a lot. The girl was simply overwhelmed by the man’s energy and thus could not tell any sensible word and seemed uninteresting to him.
Could it be for mere misunderstanding? What would happen if the man had tried to be more sensitive and patient and had put away his energy? Would it change the situation? There might be a possibility for that. But in such a case the person has to control himself not only during the first date but for all his life if he has an intention to marry this girl. But we already have enough reasons to restrain ourselves in the street, in public places and at work! The family is not the best place for additional restrictions. People should rest in the family and gain new strength there instead of wasting it.
Is it possible to make a forecast for any relationships, so that the time and money were not wasted in vain? Yes, it is. There are psychological tests that are intended for this. They are meant to show the things unseen in the pictures and letters. If our client had followed the advice of the manager and paid attention to the reports of the test instead of being ruled by beautiful pictures, he would have avoided this disappointment.
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