Why Does a Businessman Need a Wife?
Indeed, why does a businessman need a wife if he does not intend to use her as a cook, laundress or maid? Sexual needs can be satisfied by a permanent girlfriend, one-night stands, or, of course, even with a help of “professional services”.
If you consider paying for sex beneath your dignity of a man, you should take a realistic look at this everyday issue putting aside all prejudice. Unfortunately, many family relationships run in a way similar to prostitution achieved on a “long-term agreement” basis. A woman agrees to provide regular satisfaction for sexual demands of a man, as long as the man takes the responsibility for satisfaction of her financial needs.
For many successful men, a wife is just an accessory used to create an image of success. Suchlike men want to find a reliable tall and spectacular looking blond who will represent their fortune in the face of their friends and business partners the same way as their expensive car or a brand-new suit does. They do not care about intimate harmony or psychological qualities of their woman, as long as she would not sell them short in the eyes of their friends. That is the reason why they cannot understand the very necessity of personality testing. After all, the photographs say everything one needs to know.
But, in my view, there is one more extremely important quality of wife, which some people might consider a piece of superfluous sentimentality. Your wife must be the closest and the most understanding person to whom you can entrust all your secrets and soft spots, someone who will never betray you and who will always support you through hard times.
There is one very popular expression in Russia which is “my house is my castle”. Concerning it we mean not only unassailable doors or bullet-proof windows, but also the feeling of psychological protection that can be secured only with a help of a loved one. However, if your wife is rather a beautiful piece of furniture or a device for the satisfaction of your sexual needs, what protection can be expected? Such a person can “amend the agreement” any moment he or she pleases if someone offers him or her more profitable terms.
Psychologists identify a special form of relationships called intimacy. Many people confuse intimacy with sex, but, unfortunately, they are not always the same. Intimacy is the extreme degree of confidence and frankness. Our stressful life makes us curb our emotions and mind every word in order not to say anything inappropriate. We are constantly perplexed by the impression we make on the people around us, by our own image and dignity.
All these tasks require enormous efforts and, all the more so, make us feel lonely and weak. If there is no person beside us who is capable of sharing our feelings and providing us a mere “emotional backup”, our response to many events becomes too painful. It is difficult for us to remain “cool-headed” all the time and sometimes we are getting under the influence of our feelings and ambitions when the only appropriate conduct should be ruled by common sense and rationality. This hardly contributes to business success.
It is not by accident that many businessmen regularly consult their psychoanalysts. A well-paid specialist creates a substitute for intimacy pretending to understand any feeling or desire of yours, even the most unpleasant one. Your psychoanalyst also guarantees complete privacy, which as well substitutes a feeling of confidence. It is no wonder that many clients experience a feeling of love to their psychoanalyst no matter what their gender or sexual orientation is.
A feeling of mutual understanding and confidence can be gained not only with a help of psychoanalyst, but also with a help of your close friend or relative. However, it is better when this role is taken by a woman. Sexual contact is something more than a means to satisfy physical needs. It is also the most intimate form of contact. When you make love, your feelings and emotions can be shown most easily.
But how to find a woman with whom you will be able to establish such a contact? First of all, both of you should be ready for this. However, your willingness is not all. If the individuals want to understand each other well, they need to obtain the similar ways of thinking, similar feelings and similar basic values. That will secure harmony on the level of energy. These qualities are evaluated in our psychological test by comparison of PSYCHO-DYNAMIC ENERGY, CREATIVITY, VERBALIZATION, SEXUAL POTENTIAL, SEXUAL EMPHASIS and REPRESENTATIVE SYSTEMS. The closer are the values of these scales for the partners, the greater are their chances to build truly intimate relations.
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